ISFP - Personal Relationship

The Harmonizers


ISFPs always encourage their children to try new things, and understand that their children must step outside of their comfort zone for learning to happen. When their children try and fail, ISFP parents are always there to help pick their child back up, encouraging them to try again.

ISFPs certainly do have rules, but may have a hard time enforcing them. ISFP parents do not like feeling as if they are strict authoritarians. In addition, ISFPs do not like conflict and are especially hurt when their children are disrespectful. It is important for ISFP parents to remind themselves that sometimes you need to enforce the rules – the rules are there to help and protect your child!

Romantic Relationships

ISFPs are free-spirited and fun, an energy they naturally bring into their romantic relationships. ISFPs are constantly looking for new and exciting date ideas and getaways with their romantic partners.

Initially, it may be hard to get ISFPs to open up and reveal the true, deeper side of themselves. And because ISFPs are constantly seeking out excitement, they may have a difficult time committing and staying in a long-term relationship. ISFPs dread falling into a boring routine, so anyone dating an ISFP must keep things exciting and fresh.


ISFPs make very loyal and kind friends. They are always there for a friend in need. At other times, however, they will make sure that everyone is having a great time! You will never have a boring evening with an ISFP.

Many people are naturally drawn to the charismatic and friendly nature of ISFPs. In turn, ISFPs are accepting of all others, even those who have very different personality types than themselves. They often make great friends for introverts, who don’t mind sharing the spotlight.

All children are artists. The problem is how to remain an artist once you grow up.
Pablo Picasso