ESFJ

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Strengths
Strengths

ESFPs are naturally friendly, outgoing, exciting, and flexible. ESFPs always try to make the most of each day, and enjoy doing new and exciting things. They are also warm, kind-hearted, and generous. ESFPs make friends easily, and are excellent communicators. They focus on the here-and-now, and prefer to take things one day at a time.

ESFPs were born for the spotlight, and love being the center of attention. There is rarely a dull moment when an ESFP is around! They enjoy nothing more than spending time with friends and family. They are accepting of others, but often hold grudges against those who have wronged them in the past.

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Weaknesses
Weaknesses

Because they enjoy living in the present moment, ESFPs can often have difficulty planning for the future. They may find themselves getting so caught up in the excitement of their day-to-day lives that they forget their long-term responsibilities.

ESFPs are constantly seeking out excitement, but if they are unable to find it, they get bored very easily. This may lead to irresponsible choices and risky behavior. This tendency may also cause problems in romantic relationships — ESFPs may be afraid of commitment because they are afraid of being trapped in an old, boring relationship. There is nothing ESFPs are more afraid of than losing that “spark”...

Parenthood
Parenthood

ESFPs are very fun-loving parents. They are constantly looking for fun and exciting activities to do with their children. They encourage their children to try new things, and understand that their children must step outside of their comfort zone for learning to happen. When their children try and fail, ESFP parents are always there to help pick their child back up, encouraging them to try again.

ESFPs certainly do have rules, but may have a hard time enforcing them. ESFP parents do not like feeling as if they are strict authoritarians. In addition, ESFPs do not like conflict and are especially hurt when their children are disrespectful....

Romantic Relationships
Romantic Relationships

ESFPs are free-spirited and fun, an energy they naturally bring into their romantic relationships. ESFPs do not want to slowly get to know someone, they want to skip ahead and experience all the excitement that life has to offer! They are constantly looking for new and exciting date ideas and getaways with their romantic partners.

Because ESFPs are constantly seeking out excitement, they may have a difficult time committing and staying in a long-term relationship. ESFPs dread falling into a boring routine, so anyone dating an ESFP must keep things exciting and fresh.

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Friendships
Friendships

ESFPs make very loyal and kind friends. They are always there for a friend in need. At other times, however, they will make sure that everyone is having a great time! You will never have a boring evening with an ESFP.

Many people are naturally drawn to the charismatic and friendly nature of ESFPs. In turn, ESFPs are accepting of all others, even those who have very different personality types than themselves. They often make great friends for introverts, who don’t mind sharing the spotlight.

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Work Habits
Work Habits

ESFPs are very giving and are willing to help others when needed, and this is apparent in the workplace. ESFPs are great team-players. They enjoy working in groups, and are both flexible and practical when doing so. ESFPs are often described as hardworking and willing to help.

While ESFPs can get along with most people, people who enjoy a great deal of structure and routine may find it difficult to work with ESFPs. They may view ESFPs as too free-spirited and irresponsible, and will quickly get frustrated.

People with this personality type have trouble dealing with conflict, and will to go great lengths to avoid...

Career Paths
Career Paths

ESFPs thrive in careers that allow them to be creative and interact with others. They often are well-suited for careers as artists, actors, sales representatives, social workers, designers, consultants, or photographers.

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Personality Type Indicator - ESFJ

ESFJs make up about 9% of the population.

  • Popular and outgoing
  • Warm, supportive, and friendly
  • Want to please others
  • Practical, thorough, and consistent
  • Organized and responsible
I think love is the through line and it's universal and it doesn't matter what period of time, time or place, or people, that's something we all connect to. That's the thin thread that I think keeps it altogether.
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