ENFJs’ social nature gives them a strong desire for close, intimate relationships, and ENFJs are willing to put in the effort to achieve this. Initially, ENFJs may have trouble opening up to their significant other. They do best with a deeply caring partner who is a great listener. Once ENFJs do open up though, ENFJs are usually great at maintaining these relationships by being affectionate, loyal, and trustworthy. ENFJs are often drawn to other Feeling personality types, with similar values as themselves.