Above all else, INFJs are looking for a deep, genuine relationship. INFJs’ have a strong desire for close, intimate relationships, and are willing to put in the effort to achieve this. Sometimes, INFJs may seem too idealistic or perfectionistic when looking for a partner — they do not like to settle.
Initially, INFJs may have trouble opening up to their significant other. They do best with a deeply caring partner who is a great listener. Once INFJs do open up though, they are usually great at maintaining these relationships by being affectionate, loyal, and trustworthy. INFJs are often drawn to other Feeling personality types, with similar values as themselves.
INFJs may have some trouble finding “the one” with whom they can form this deep, meaningful connection. People with this personality type may be picky when dating, and seek out partners with similar goals and values. In addition, INFJs intuition allows them to see through manipulative partners’ deception, and INFJs have little tolerance for a romantic partner who does not have strong morals and values.