ESTPs are looking for a fun-loving and exciting partner. They want to make the most of every day with their romantic partner, and are always looking for new and fun date ideas and things to experience with their romantic partners. ESTPs also take their lives one day at a time. Because of this, they may have trouble committing to a long-term relationship. They may try to put off making long-term plans or settling down the their romantic partner.
ESTPs truly believe that actions speak louder than words. They are constantly striving to make sure their romantic partners are satisfied, and enjoy giving gifts and planning fun experiences with their romantic partner. However, they may have trouble giving their partner words of affirmation. In the eyes of an ESTP, love is obvious — they don’t see the need to constantly say “I love you” to their partner.